Its about 730 on a Sunday morning and I want to tell you what dream wakes me up. Do not laugh, It is a dream !
I was in Yolanda Foster's house ( known for the Real Housewives of Berverly Hills ;) , in this fantastic wide open house facing the ocean and it was at nite and I glimpsed up from the hills 10 / 20 surfers highlighted through moonlight. They were waiting for the wave. Instantly - this is the beauty of dreaming - I was brought among them, sitting on a board waiting for the wave too. When it eventually came I caught it really bad and drowned under. I was fighting to get back above water but I did not have time to do it because I woke up.
I have this in-estimate Friend that lost a friend this week.
I have this girl friend who grieves the death of her brother who passed away a year ago.
Another magic pearl! who lost his dad when he was too young.
And there is still me who primary faced death at the age of 21.
Death is floating around during all her lives from the moment we were born and Amanda de Cadenet said something very true in a way that Western Culture lacks education to learn how to cope with Death.
When I hear Khalida Brohi talking Honor Killing in Pakistan or Kakenya Ntayia talking sexual mutilations despite the obvious women conditions approach what I see is that Life does have a different value in other countries. Religions / Cultures in Africa, India or Asia shows different approach of life and I think there are a lot to learn there.
In my opinion, we should, at younger ages, educate young people on the value of life. Not my intention to depress a younger generation no no no quiet the opposite make them stronger. Sharing the knowledge so that they do not have to get lost and endure pain like we did or for some still do. Most teenagers already deal with brisk feelings such as Love which is - in my opinion - the second most intense feeling ! Not because things are tough does not mean you cannot overcome them.
This is a sensitive topic, how do you do that, what frequencies. I realize these days that I have a fire burning inside of me, a huge basket of energy not only physically but most spiritually. I want to use it to make a difference in my life (which is already much started!), in my family but as well in my community.
Death is ok.
I will try to go more into details in my next chapter. Why is death ok. Just leave me time.